Paul led Onesimus to trust Jesus as his Lord and Savior while they were both in prison. He had a special relationship with him as his “own son in the faith” (1 Tim 1:2), just like he had with Timothy. Onesimus ran away after rebelling and stealing from his master, Philemon. He was “unprofitable, but now profitable” (v. 11), after he was saved. Philemon was a good Christian with a good report (v. 5). I’m sure that he had some frustration and even bitterness against his former servant that may have taken root in his heart (Heb 12:15), due to his financial loss. The law permitted him to severely punish a thief (Ex 22:4). He may have struggled in making a decision to forgive Onesimus – what would other masters think?
Would other slaves take advantage of the same situation? However, if he punished him, would it affect his Christian testimony and ministry because of his unwillingness to forgive (Eph 4:32)? His dilemma was bound by both legal and social standards, yet Philemon was a good master (Deut 23:15), and he knew that he answered to a much higher standard! Paul’s godly advice provided him with a great lesson for all believers, even today about forgiveness. This is part of the blessings that we receive from God “in the person of Christ” (2 Cor 2:10). Paul most certainly loved and discipled Onesimus while in prison.
By taking him under his wing, he saw how he became a new creature “in Christ” (2 Cor 5:17), and how he was growing “in grace” (2 Pet 3:18)! Paul was willing to be his guarantor and stood for his debts (v. 18). Although the salvation of Onesimus did not relieve him of his financial obligations to Philemon, Paul became a mediator to help correct what was wrong. This is what our Lord Jesus did for us (1 Tim 2:5); He was faithful unto death and arose victorious (1 Cor 15:4). He now lives to intercede (Rom 8:34), on our behalf! God bless you!
- Pastor Melito Barrera